CHAPTER 2: KISDEL SOLUTIONS: APPLICATION
YOU ARE READING CHAPTER 2 - PART 2
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APPLICATION OF
"GOD'S 7 BEAUTY COMMANDMENTS"
TO LIFE
“Knowledge is just Power…in book/mind, but Applying Knowledge (Action) is Power in Reality”
~Khuong Dat Long~
“In order to rise from its own ashes, a Phoenix first must burn.” (Octavia Butler)
“The Phoenix Must First Burn to Emerge” (Janet Fitch)
A Genius must ‘burn’ to dedicate himself or herself to Serve.
“Burn” what and “Serve” what?
In this part, I (JeLong) will show you how I succeeded in dealing with netizens’ harsh and humiliating comments and how ‘foes’ (people who raged at my singing voice) themselves conceded to me a singing genius.
Facebook, YouTube: ‘Machines’ That Produce And Provide Societies With Both ‘Gold’ And ‘Shit’
Social media such as Youtube and Facebook can bring people both huge benefits and rubbish, inhuman things.
Both the good and the bad can use these ‘machines’ to ‘amplify’ good or bad things they want.
Remember the reasons you signed up these popular social media sites. For what?
*to contact your friends and family?
*to promote your company or sell products?
*to find a lover or make a friend?
*to do your jobs as a marketer, a sale person, etc...?
*to join groups that inspire you?
*to watch films, enjoy music or read daily news?
*more...
Obviously, we have come to Facebook, YouTube, Google, Instagram, Twitter and other different sites for many years because of many different purposes.
Besides huge benefits (“Gold”) social media sites can bring, the social platforms are being faced with serious problems that make their bad and dark side 'stand out' from their good benefits.
Fake news, racist acts, shooting live-streams, foreign electoral interventions, toxic contents, etc…are the worst side and these Tech companies still can’t solve.
One of the hurting problems tech giants and users have been being faced with is: harsh and humiliating comments (cyberbullying).
“Now Facebook says it may remove Like counts” said Techcrunch.
The tech publisher reported “Facebook could soon start hiding the Like counter on News Feed posts to protect users’ from envy and dissuade them from self-censorship.”. It explained more “…The idea is to prevent users from destructively comparing themselves to others and possibly feeling inadequate if their posts don’t get as many Likes”
In fact, harsh and humiliating comments are the problem which is much more serious.
Cruel words, especially severe online comments, can kill a human mentally and physically, inside and outside.
The New York Times reported:
{“A Teenager Killed Himself After Being Outed as Bisexual. His Family Wants Justice. The family and classmates of Channing Smith, a high school junior, said his death was a result of ‘social media bullying’”
“The student, Channing Smith, a 16-year-old junior at Coffee County Central High School in Manchester, Tenn., took his own life on Sept. 23 after sexually explicit text messages that he had exchanged with a male classmate were posted on social media, according to his family.”
“He was absolutely humiliated,” his older brother, Joshua Smith, said by phone on Monday, describing the messages as “very explicit.”
“There was no way he could have gone to school afterward,” he added.
“A few hours later, Channing shot and killed himself, his brother said. In Channing’s final post on Instagram, he said, “I really hate how I can’t trust anyone because those I did were so fake.”}
Channing Smith’s final Instagram post: “I’m gonna get off social media for awhile,” the 16-year-old from Manchester, Tenn., wrote last week. “I really hate how I can’t trust anyone because those I did were so fake. Bye.”
Another tragic story.
“Sulli, 25-year-old K-pop star, found dead at home in Seongnam, South Korea” , a sad news from CNN.
According to Korean media, prior to Choi Jin-ri’s death (her real name) on 14 October 2019, Sulli “was suffering from severe depression and in October 2018, she revealed that she also suffered from panic disorder and social phobia since she was young”
"...her opinions often made her a target of online trolls, particularly by anti-feminists, said CedarBough Saeji, an expert in Korean culture and society at the University of British Columbia."
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The actress usually got online comments such as “stupid”, “ignorant”, “sickness”…
“…after leaving f(x), Sulli – real name Choi Jin-ri – struggled with the comments from cruel trolls, and in a recent Instagram live video circulating online, she asked: ‘I’m not a bad person. Why are [they] talking bad about me? Tell me one thing I did to deserve this.’”
{The artist shared: "Social phobia, panic disorder... I’ve had panic disorder ever since I was young.
"There were times when close people… Some of my closest friends have left me. People hurt me, so everything fell apart. I didn’t feel like I had anyone on my side or anyone who could understand me. So that’s why I completely fell apart."
According to Pew Research Center: “59% of U.S. teens have been bullied or harassed online, and a similar share says it's a major problem for people their age. At the same time, teens mostly think teachers, social media companies and politicians are failing at addressing this issue.”
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Interminable Powerlessness of Governments and Tech Giants
Facebook was “running a limited test where like, reaction and video view counts are made private across Facebook," (a company spokesperson told CNET in an emailed statement). Indiatimes.com added “The reason behind removing likes from view was aimed at reducing social pressure among users” . The company “wanted its platform to be a place where people could comfortably express themselves and focus on sharing photos or videos rather concentrating on the number of 'Likes'.”
The tech giant, for a long time, has been accused of exploiting “vulnerability in human psychology”
Sean Parker, Facebook's first president, emphasized that Facebook wanted to keep so many of us coming back. As CNET reported that: “He said it's all by design, because receiving a "like" or a comment on your post gives you a little hit of dopamine.”
Even though Facebook can do this: “its platform to be a place where people could comfortably express themselves and focus on sharing photos or videos rather concentrating on the number of 'Likes'.” successfully, it still cannot solve physical and mental damages online users have been being faced with.
Because people all over the world are fighting against the more serious problems: Toxic Contents, Inhumane Comments, Bullying On Social Media And Fake News.
Obviously, hiding or removing “Likes” on this platform will not solve the problems.
And what about YouTube, the largest, most popular video hosting platform or Twitter?
What are they doing to tackle the same problems?
In fact, these tech giants Facebook, YouTube and Twitter have done tests and made changes which people or users may not see clearly.
However, the reality is showing their action results and they still haven’t had any right solution to help people (their users and customers) avoid mental and physical damages.
Sulli died from “vicious tongues”
Cruel words, especially severe online comments, can kill a human mentally and physically, inside and outside.
Governments depend on solutions of tech companies. They are passive in tackling the problems. The tech platforms are in tech giants’ hands.
It Was A Huge Fortune When I Myself Was An “Insider”!
I mean I myself experienced the same cyberbullying.
However, I got an absolutely different result which was awesome.
I will show you differences and the best way to overcome cyberbullying, triumph over humiliation and depression.
We grieve at the deaths of people like Sulli and Channing.
We’re here to learn and know the darkest side of human lives. The main reason we’re here is to know how to protect ourselves from inhuman acts like cyberbullying which can ‘push’ people into death.
First, look at the following table which shows big differences in results between me and people like Channing Smith, Sulli:
| People like Channing Smith, Sulli | JeLong (me): Solving the Cyberbullying with God’s Talent Truth |
Incidents | o Channing Smith: his intimate messages to another boy were leaked by classmates. “Images of his private conversations with another boy had been posted on Instagram and Snapchat, his family said” reported WashingtonPost. o Sulli: "...her opinions often made her a target of online trolls, particularly by anti-feminists, said CedarBough Saeji, an expert in Korean culture and society at the University of British Columbia." The actress usually got online comments such as “stupid”, “ignorant”, “sickness”… | · JeLong: many people in the online music community did 'release' their preposterous rage at my singing voice. · Their bullying comments: - "The music ruining everything here" - “Yo wtf” - “Get goosebumps sound like shit” |
The bad’s target |
o The bad wanted to humiliate and embarrass victims
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Reactions | o The incidents made Channing Smith and Sulli depressed and frightened by the malice of people o depression caused by cyberbullying | · The incident made Jelong self-controlled, calm and start to find out deep reasons behind people’s rage. |
Actions | o Channing Smith killed himself o Sulli: Police say K-pop star died in 'suspected suicide' | · The incident made Jelong self-controlled, calm and start to find out why they raged at singing voice preposterously. · NhacJelong.com posted a music video on YouTube to verify their motive. |
What behind the incidents? | o The bad’s insensitiveness, greed, fear, Prejudices and Discrimination | |
The crutch to lean on | o Channing Smith and Sulli didn’t have anyone to lean on | · The crutch for JeLong to lean on is always God. |
Final Results
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o Deaths | · After posting the video of Jelong’s singing voice, all of them (the bad) were silent, and didn’t counter anymore. · Someone strongly obecjted that JeLong’s voice was genius but when Nhac JeLong told them to try doing it as JeLong did (“making the community release their preposterous rage at the singing voice naturally.), they were just speechless. The important thing is, after seeing “My World Challenge” in the chapter 5 of this ebook, those people will have a full answer for them. · JeLong, from an unknown person, many people now see him as a Genius. Many people (especially those who ‘threw stones’ at JeLong) are now afraid of his ability. · I myself now feel so great because God’s 7 Beauty Commandments made me solve the problem easily and comfortably! |
That’s the huge difference.
I’m sure if someone like Channing Smith or Sulli had known about God’s 7 Beauty Commandments and had applied them in their lives, they would never have had to face tragic endings like those.
I am the most vivid proof and the solution God’s 7 Beauty Commandments which I gave to the public long time ago helped myself solve the problem successfully.
It’s a great feeling when my solution saved myself!
But how did I overcome people’s rage and get the best result like that?
24/7, I Always Follow And Apply God’s 7 Beauty Commandments!
It’s easy to understand that.
Without My God’s special instructions, I couldn’t give 7 beauty Commandments to the public some years ago.
Since I knew those vital things, I have been following and applying them in my life. Exactly, I always use God’s Beauty Truth, God’s Talent Truth and God’s Root Truth to solve the problems.
When you 24/7 follow and apply inhuman prejudices and discrimination, those evil things will be ‘nourished’ in your soul and mind and they will kill you eventually.
On the contrary, when you 24/7 always follow and apply Holy things of God, those evil things will be killed and you will live happily!
If you have “humane eyes” (also called “inner eyes”) and God’s Truths, you’ll see you can stop the bad from spreading hatred and humiliating you.
With God’s Talent Truth, it will bring a huge benefit not only for you but also for other people.
But How?
First, look at God’s 7 beauty Commandments with their full form again:
1. Trust Your Own Beauty and Talent. Take 100% Responsibility For Your Talent and Beauty (Decisions) 2. Overcome All Of Bad Feelings About Your Talent, Beauty And Make Changes Successively until You Feel Extremely Beautiful and Talented. Never Accept Being Ugly and Untalented 3. Separate Health From Beauty. No Matter How Your Health Is, You Are Always Beautiful. Take Care Of Your Invaluable Health Carefully. 4. Pursue Truth Both In And Outside. 5. Make Your Talent And Beauty Increase Your Worthiness. 6. Do Destroy ‘Eyes of Prejudices’ and Use ‘Humane Eyes’ To Look At Yourself And Others 7. DO USE GOD'S BEAUTY-TALENT-ROOT TRUTH TO LIVE.
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Now, I will show you how I did follow and apply those vital beauty commandments and triumph over the bad:
| People like Channing Smith, Sulli | JeLong (me): Solving the Cyberbullying with God’s Talent Truth |
Reactions | o The incidents made Channing Smith and Sulli depressed and frightened by the malice of people o depression caused by cyberbullying | · The incident made Jelong self-controlled, calm and start to find out deep reasons behind people’s rage. · With God’s Talent Truth, I already knew that: "God is Almighty. You're God's Child, You're Talented!" ð This Truth made me self-controlled and calm ð When the bad tries to make you trust that you’re untalented or stupid, God’s Talent Truth will destroy that and makes you calm greatly. ð Because I’m a child of God, I have great values that cruel persons cannot harm. God’s Talent Truth really made me believe in myself strongly! · If you “Never Accept Being Ugly and Untalented” (the 2nd commandment) and “Overcome All Of Bad Feelings”, you’ll never get angry or depressed when the bad humiliate you. Eyes of prejudice make people lose and accept being untalented and stupid. · Because of the 6th commandment “Do Destroy ‘Eyes of Prejudices’ and Use ‘Humane Eyes’ To Look At Yourself And Others”, I could not follow singing prejudices and that was the reason I could overcome harsh comments with ease and made them silent and stop humiliating me. ð The bad only can hurt you if you follow inhumane prejudices and discrimination! · I took different actions to get the situation better or even make benefits for me and others. ð If I hadn’t been able to win the bad, I could never have been here and written these lines! (Simply, how can I show you the way tackling cyberbullying if I cannot do it successfully? Right?) ð That means: I am showing you the way to avoid cyberbullying, win the bad and that brings you benefits. |
Results | o They didn’t have anyone to lean on. o They suffered depression o They killed themselves or died of depression | § The crutch for JeLong to lean on is always God § Same as me, You can keep your beautiful image § You keep your great values and personality § You avoid being hurt and keep others (such as your children, family, folks and friends, etc) away from being hurt § You even make big benefits from the incident § The best result, people who humiliated and raged at me now concede to me a Genius. That shows their big respects for me. Instead of embarrassing JeLong, they now feel ashamed of themselves and afraid of JeLong’s ability. § Finally, my victory shows : “Good triumphs over evil”. In the other way, God and God’s Things always win and defeat evil things.
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| Important Note: Beautiful Actions and Amazing Results above (when using God’s Talent Truth) will occur only when you don’t do evil things, follow prejudices or you use “humane eyes”, not “ (For example, if I had followed singing prejudices, I couldn’t have overcome bad feelings (after they had humiliated me) and I would have believed in what they had said.) |
That was the real story of my life.
Deaths of people like Channing Smith, Sulli ‘warned’ us.
Once again, we’re here to learn from incidents, experiences and learn how to make it easiest to solve, avoid hurts and even achieve some good results.
“Eyes of prejudices”, hatred are the main perpetrator that made the incidents of Channing Smith and Sulli get worse.
They didn’t have any “exit’ and had to surrender the evil.
You are the deciding factor! The Choice is of yours (Khuong Dat Long) |
“The Highest Peak of Human Talent - Talent on the outside doesn’t depend on the outside. You look at yourself and others through your Humane eyes, not eyes of prejudices. It even becomes a Holy Talent.” ~ JeLong (Khuong Dat Long) ~ |
Of course, we have to exert our minds and energy to improve our talents.
However, we cannot reach the most high-spirited peak if we follow inhuman prejudices and discrimination. Sure!
If you are an atheist, how can you use God’s Talent Truth in this situation? Please read my answer in chapter 1 again. God’s Beauty Truth, God’s Talent Truth and God’s Root Truth are not for Christians and Catholics only.
Eyes of prejudices always make us find it very hard or even feel incapable of overcoming cyberbullying and humiliation.
Therefore, if you want to triumph over (cyber)bullying, at the very first start, You NEVER follow, accept and apply Prejudices and Discrimination which are Inhumane.
In the other word,
That will create huge powers inside you and help you vanquish the bad.
If victims had known about God’s Truths and applied them, they wouldn’t have been faced with pitiful deaths.
But remember: Even though you know about beauty commandments of God, you also will lose if you still follow, accept and apply evil things (prejudices and discrimination).
Unexpected Victories
God’s Beauty and Talent Truths do always exist. If something like the incidents happens in our life, why don’t we use God’s Truths to create a win-win-win-win situation?
When people who hated and were extremely angry at my singing had to concede to me a singing genius, I had 4 wins:
1. I overcame and triumphed over cyberbullying (win 1);
2. My beloved people didn’t feel hurt (win 2);
3. My real incident now can help others know how to avoid cyberbullying (win 3) and
4. I (a little child of God) made my God (The Trinity-Jesus, a Holy Parent) more sacred and wonderful (win 4).
In fact, in the best situation, with God’s 7 Beauty Commandments, I can have 5 wins.
The last win is: many people among ones who raged at my singing voice now feel ashamed. That will make them think about their cruel behaviors. Many among them will think deeply about things happening around the incident and start to behave properly.
That means my real incident had a good influence on them and this helps reduce cyberbullying.
THE PHOENIX MUST BURN TO EMERGE!
And after all, I clearly see that: Being a child of God is the best!
A genius, no matter how great talent, is incomparable.
Because when you have God, you always have ‘the crutch’ beside you, no matter how bad incidents you face…
I’m JeLong, just a very special ‘part’ of Khuong Dat Long.
It’s lucky for me when experiencing the real incident of online bullying
and being here to help you know the way to achieve the big victory.
With God’s 7 Beauty Commandments,
You Cannot But Win Cyberbullying!
As long as You NEVER follow, accept and apply Prejudices and Discrimination which are Inhumane.
REFERENCE
1 Whenever I sing songs, I am JeLong.
2 Learn more: https://khuongdatlong.com/other-posts/fake-news-shooting-livestreams-reality-game-of-two-evil-snakes.php
3 Source: https://techcrunch.com/2019/09/02/facebook-hidden-likes/
4 Source: https://techcrunch.com/2019/09/02/facebook-hidden-likes/
5 Source: https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/30/us/channing-smith-suicide-bisexual-tennessee.html
6 Source: https://www.washingtonpost.com/nation/2019/09/30/tennessee-teen-channing-smith-instagram-lgbt-killed/
7 Source: https://edition.cnn.com/2019/10/14/entertainment/k-pop-star-death-scli-intl/index.html
8 Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sulli
9 Source: https://edition.cnn.com/2019/10/15/asia/kpop-sulli-death-aftermath-intl-hnk-scli/index.html
10 Source: https://www.koreaboo.com/news/sulli-life-empty-pretending-happy-outside/
11 Source: https://twitter.com/dragonyongie/status/1183709916977975296
12 Source: https://metro.co.uk/2019/10/14/sullis-battle-panic-disorder-trolls-forced-quit-fx-k-pop-star-dies-aged-25-10914425/
13 Source: https://ph.news.yahoo.com/sulli-found-dead-kpop-fx-112933034.html
14 Source: https://www.pewinternet.org/2018/09/27/a-majority-of-teens-have-experienced-some-form-of-cyberbullying/
15 Source: https://www.pewinternet.org/2018/09/27/a-majority-of-teens-have-experienced-some-form-of-cyberbullying/
16 Source: https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/magazines/panache/the-end-of-an-era-facebook-set-to-begin-hiding-likes-and-reactions-today/articleshow/71323632.cms
17 Source: https://economictimes.indiatimes.com/magazines/panache/the-end-of-an-era-facebook-set-to-begin-hiding-likes-and-reactions-today/articleshow/71323632.cms
18 Source: https://www.cnet.com/news/sean-parker-facebook-exploits-vulnerability-in-human-psychology/
19 Source: https://www.cnet.com/news/sean-parker-facebook-exploits-vulnerability-in-human-psychology/
20 Source: https://news.zing.vn/sulli-hoa-tuyet-le-tan-lui-o-tuoi-25-vi-mieng-luoi-nguoi-doi-post1001670.html
21 Source: https://news.zing.vn/sulli-hoa-tuyet-le-tan-lui-o-tuoi-25-vi-mieng-luoi-nguoi-doi-post1001670.html
22 Source: https://edition.cnn.com/2019/10/15/asia/kpop-sulli-death-aftermath-intl-hnk-scli/index.html
23 Source: https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/how-sulli-die-police-say-20576163
24 Please re-read Chapter 1 about God’s Talent Truth
25 Now, you can see we also had 5 wins (win-win-win-win-win) in the previous part (instead of 3) as I said.